Saturday, 4 January 2014

Happy childhood benefit

Geht Euren Eltern Euer Glück auch über alles?

Glasses: Prada / Necklace: Pieces / Sweater: Asos / Coat: Unreal Fur /
Bag: Prada / Pants: Only / Shoes: Zara

Denn bei mir hat gestern eine meiner früheren Klientinnen angerufen. Diese Klientin mag ich sehr gerne, und ich habe tiefes Mitgefühl mit und vor allem großem Respekt vor ihr, denn sie zieht ihre Tochter alleine auf, nachdem sie ihren Mann durch einen tödlichen Unfall verloren hat.

Mein Klientin hat es auch derzeit nicht gerade einfach, denn sie ist gezwungen, einige Herausforderungen meistern, die ihr das Leben stellt. Dennoch verliert sie nie ihren Humor, und ich bin auch außerordentlich beeindruckt davon, wie wunderbar sie mit ihrer neunjährigen Tochter umgeht und wie viel Liebe sie ihr gibt.

Nun hatte meine Klientin ein ganz konkretes Anliegen: „Darf ich sie bitte um einen Rat fragen?“ fragte sie in ihrer höflichen Art, die sich so sehr an ihr schätze. Sie musste mich natürlich nicht lange bitten, und ich erwiderte entgegenkommend: „Aber natürlich, für Sie immer gerne, bitte, was haben Sie denn auf dem Herzen?“

„Also,“ meine Klientin holte hörbar Luft, „was meinen Sie, macht es Sinn meiner Tochter ein Pferd zu schenken? Ich hätte da momentan nämlich eines im Auge, auf dem meine Tochter schon jetzt sehr oft reitet und das sie über alles liebt, und jetzt überlege ich, ob ich dieses Pferd für meine Tochter kaufe.“

Ich dachte kurz nach: „Hm, also ganz ehrlich, da Sie und Ihre Tochter ohnehin in einer so schwierigen Konstellation leben, kann ich mir vorstellen, dass es ihrer Tochter nur guttut, wenn sie ein Tier hat, um das sie sich kümmern und das sie von Herzen lieben kann. Ich habe nur die Frage, ob Sie sich das Pferd leisten können?“

„Oh,“ rief meine Klientin nun aus, „wenigstens habe ich im finanziellen Bereich keine Probleme, und ich würde das Pferd von einem Teil der monatlichen Versicherungssumme, die meine Tochter auf Grund des Todes meines Mannes bekommt, bezahlen. Eigentlich hatte ich ja vor, dass Geld komplett für die Ausbildung meiner Tochter zu verwenden.“

Das hörte ich nur zu gerne: „Dann ist ja alles bestens, denn ich habe die Überzeugung, dass das Beste, was wir unseren Kindern mitgeben können, eine glückliche Kindheit und eine gute Ausbildung sind. Und mit dem Geld, dass sie in das Pferd investieren, machen sie ihre Tochter glücklich und schaffen dadurch beste Voraussetzungen für ihr späteres Leben, denn ich bin überzeugt davon, dass insbesondere eine geborgene Kindheit mit möglichst vielen Glücksmomenten, eine stabile Persönlichkeit begünstigen. Daher würde ich ihr das Pferd kaufen.“

Und genau das wird meine Klientin auch tun, und ich wünsche ihr und ihrer Tochter von ganzem Herzen, dass sie dadurch viel Freude in ihrem Leben hinzugewinnen.

Hättet Ihr gerne ein Pferd? In was würdet Ihr Geld investieren? Was denkt Ihr, ist das Fundament für eine stabile und glückliche Persönlichkeit?

Und nein, mein grauer Mantel von heute, den ich zusammen mit meiner Lederhose und dem schwarz-weiß gemusterten Kaschmirpulli trage, ist natürlich kein Pferdefell, dass ist nur Fake Fur ...

Ein wunderbares Wochenende für Euch alle!


Have for your parents your happiness also the highest priority?

Because yesterday one of my former clients called. This client I like really and I feel deep sympathy with her and have further huge respect, because she is raising her daughter alone after she lost her husband due to a fatal accident.


At the moment the life of my client is also not really easy as she has to master some tough challenges which provides her life. Yet my client never loses her sense of humor and I am extremely impressed how wonderful she is with her nine year old daughter and how much love she gives her daughter.


My client had a very specific request: "May I please ask for advice," she asked in her polite way that I appreciate really. I answered courteous, "Of course, it´s a pleasure for me and I hope I will be able to answer you."


"So," my client took audible a deep breath, "what do you mean, does it make sense to give my daughter a horse? Namely, currently I have the opportunity to buy the horse which my daughter already rides very often. And my daughter loves this horse really. Now I wonder if I should buy this horse for my daughter."


I thought for a short moment: "Hm, honestly, because you and your daughter already living far away from a easy life, I can imagine that it's only good for your daughter if she has an animal about which she can take care and to which she can give her love. I have only the question whether you are able to afford the horse?"


"Oh," my client cried out with relief, "at least I have no problems in the financial field, and I would pay the horse from one part of the monthly insured amount that gets my daughter because of my husband's death. Actually I planned to save the money completely for the education of my daughter."


I was glad to hear this: "Then everything is fine, because I have the conviction that the best thing we can give to our children is a happy childhood and a good education. And with the money that you invest in the horse, you make your daughter happy and thereby you create the best conditions for her later life, as I am convinced that particularly a childhood in security with as many moments of happiness as possible favors a stable personality. Therefore, I would buy her the horse."


And exactly this my client will do and I wish her ​​and her daughter with all my heart that both thereby gain a lot of joy in their life.


Would you like to have a horse? In what would you invest your money? What do you think is the foundation for a stable and happy life?


And no, my coat which I wear today with my black-and-white patterned cashmere sweater and my black leather leggings is not a horse's fur - it is of course fake fur ...


I wish you a pleasant weekend!






On the ice

156 comments:

  1. you look gorgeous!
    love your coat
    xx
    http://anoddgirl.blogspot.com.au

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  2. Hi Rena, your words have left me thinking and I think you're very right, a happy childhood is the best foundation for the future of our children, there is something special you want me oldest son and I could not buy at Christmas, and is not a horse happily, but I will strive to buy it on your birthday, I love your faux fur coat, these great as always.

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    1. Hi Rebeca, thanks a lot for reading and confirming my thoughts. I´m sure your son will be also happy on his birthday when he gets what he wants. Thanks for loving my fur coat, I thought for a while if I really should buy it as my lovely husband first didn´t like it. But fortunately now he changed his opinion :)

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  3. Awesome combo sweetie!!!
    Love your sweater and your coat!
    Kisses
    Vered

    בלוג אופנה Vered'Style fashion blog

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  4. Amazing coat!!!

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  5. Danke so sehr, Liebe Rena, für Deine guten Wünsche.. Das ist wirklich lieb von dir! Ihre schönen Kommentar bedeuten mir sehr viel. Sie zu treffen. Sie haben ein Herz aus Gold! <3

    dass Tasche sieht fantastisch aus and Ich liebe dein Lächeln und Ihren Stil zu!! Bitte vergib mir für mein schlechtes Deutsch :P

    Liebe Grüße sendet Dir:-)
    Charu

    http://www.myglossyaffair.com/

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    1. Liebe Charu, meine Wünsche kommen von Herzen, auch wenn ich mir nicht so sicher bin, ob mein Herz wirklich aus Gold ist :) Ich mag Dich wirklich sehr gerne!

      Dein Deutsch ist wirklich bemerkenswert gut und ich freue mich, dass Du mein Lächeln und meinen Stil magst.

      Liebe Grüße sendet Dir:-)

      Rena

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    2. Awww that means a lot to me :) <3

      Hugs and kisses
      Charu

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    3. <3

      Hugs and kisses my dear friend
      Rena

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  6. Liebe Rena, ich wünsche Dir ein fantastisches neues Jahr und alles Liebe für 2014! Auf weitere ganz viele tolle Blogposts von Dir!
    xoxo
    Sara

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    1. Liebe Sara, ich wünsche Dir von ganzem Herzen ebenfalls ein wunderbares Neues Jahr und alles Liebe für 2014! Vielen herzlichen Dank für Deine lieben Wünsche und ich freue mich auch sehr auf Deine Blogposts!
      xoxo
      Rena

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  7. Your grey fur coat is absolutely amazing dear Rena..love it so much!
    Have a nice week end, kisses

    www.angelswearheels.com

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    1. Thanks a lot, dear Dania!
      Have a nice weekend, kisses

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  8. I really enjoyed reading your posts! They make my day!

    Relationships.College.Love

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    1. Thanks a lot for reading, now you made my day <3

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  9. Wonderful outfit!! very chic.
    I am following you with bloglovin and GFC please follow back

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  10. OMG, the streets are all covered with ice.. It must be really cold..
    I would life to have a horse... I can understand your clients emotion, even my mother being a single parent my mum also got me a dog as i love dogs
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    1. On this place was indeed very cold as this is a frozen sea … :)
      Thank you so much for understanding the emotions of my client, and I know already that your mother is very clever and full of love, and I think it was a really good idea that she bought you a dog. Hope it helps a little for you as you have your mother as a single parent.
      Keep in touch,
      Rena

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  11. brrrr seems like in Germany is really col. Here is Ireland it's very windy, we get sun and rain. It's a really weird weather

    Any way you loo pretty and really nice wrapped up for the cold weather:-)

    hey girl. Thx for checking my blog. And answering on your question, yes we can follow each other via GFC, bloglovin, FB and google +. Please let me know once you did that; make sure to mention which platforms you followed me; so that i could follow back

    kisses
    xxxxxxxxx
    Ewelina
    chiclifestyleofewelina.blogspot.com

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    1. Oh, the weather in Ireland sounds indeed not really good, fortunately our weather here is bearable and only near frozen seas and snow it is cold.

      Thanks a lot for your wonderful und kind feedback :)

      Kisses
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      Rena

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  12. Liebe Rena:)

    Ich wünsche auch Dir und Deinen Lieben ein schönes Wochenende!

    Zu Deinem Post würde ich klar hinaus sagen, dass ein glückliches Elternhaus das Fundament für eine gute Persönlichkeit ist. Ich kann mich an keinen Bösewicht in der Geschichte erinnern, der eine gute Kindheit geniessen durfte. Auch finde ich die Entscheidung Deiner ehem. Klientin in Ordnung, ich hätte an Deiner Stelle genau gleich geantwortet.

    Liebe Grüsse sendet Dir:)

    Orianne

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    1. Liebe Orianne:)

      Danke für Deine guten Wünsche, hoffentlich hattet Ihr bisher einen schönen Samstag!

      Das ist interessant, dass Du den fehlenden Zusammenhang zwischen Bösewichten in der Geschichte und einer guten Kindheit herstellst, denn mir geht es wie Dir, mir fällt da auch gar niemand ein! Ich danke Dir auch für die Bestätigung, dass Du genauso geantwortet hättest wie ich, das beruhigt mich noch im Nachhinein.

      Liebe Grüße sendet Dir:)

      Rena

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  13. I really like the look, the fur coat is awesome!
    I follow you, we can follow each other via gfc. Kisses <3

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  14. i love that coat, you look so warm! xx

    i've also got a giveaway on my blog with soap & glory and lots more! check it out if youd like :)

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    1. Thanks, fortunately this coat is warm! xx

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  15. Great pics and cute coat! Kisses.
    http://www.solaanteelespejo.blogspot.com.es/

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  16. I love this look, you fur coat is amazing ! :D

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  17. Love your outfit!
    Hope you have a happy new year :)
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    1. Thanks, and I hope also you have a happy New Year :)

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  18. Oh Rena, eine tolle Geschichte! Ich wünsche deiner Klientin, dass das Pferd sich als Stütze für ihre Tochter erweist!
    Ich selbst bin seit vielen Jahren im Reitsport aktiv und würde einen solchen vierbeinigen Partner nie mehr missen wollen! Außerdem kannst du deiner Klientin vielleicht weitergeben: Wer mit Pferden umgeht erlernt ein hohes Maß an Disziplin und Verantwortungsbewusst sein, denn egal ob es klirrend kalt oder brüllend heiß ist oder die Zeit knapp - zum Pferd muss man immer, es wartet bei Wind und Wetter. Mich hat das sehr geschult, deshalb würde ich immer wieder Geld in ein Pferd investieren... auch wenn es hier natürlich große Spannweiten gibt, vom 30000 euo-Sportpferd zum 5000 Euro-Freizeitpony... aber egal, für wie viel Geld, wichtig ist, dass das Pferd zum Reiter passt... nun aber genug Pferdekunde, und noch ein Lob für dein tolles Outfit: Jacke, Tasche und Brille sind ein Traum!

    Alles Liebe
    Laura
    http://laurassterne.blogspot.de/

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    1. Liebe Laura, da freu ich mich von Herzen, dass Du meine Geschichte toll findest und dass Du meiner Klientin auch noch wünscht, dass sich das Pferd als Stütze für ihre Tochter erweist!
      Und was Du in Bezug auf Disziplin und Verantwortungsbewusstsein schreibst, gebe ich gerne noch an meine Klientin weiter. Ich habe Respekt vor Dir, dass Du das so bewusst und zum Wohle Deiner eigenen Persönlichkeit so durchziehst. Gut finde ich auch Deinen Hinweis, dass das Pferd zum Reiter passen muss.
      Danke natürlich auch für Dein Lob <3
      Alles Liebe
      Rena

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  19. You look fabulous dear Rena, as always all your outfits are so unique and original!
    Happy New Year to you! May it bring happiness and success to you and your wonderful family)
    Take care and keep in touch!

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    1. Thanks a lot, dear Alexandra, I usually try to do my best, also with my outfit, sometimes it works and sometimes not :)
      Happy New Year to you! Wish you only the best and that only pleasant things will happen in your life!
      Take care and keep in touch!

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  20. Great look!
    Following you now) Please follow me back)

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    1. You are nice, thank you, sure I follow you back!

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  21. Die Geschichte ist toll .. Als ich ein kleines Kind war, wollte ich auch ein Pferd haben haha :) aber meine Eltern sagten, dass es zu anstrengend waere, sich um ein Pferd zu kuemmern. Und dann bekamm ich als Kind von meinen Eltern viele rosa "My little Ponys" ,kennst du sie? :D ..

    ..und ja, du bist wunderschoen :)

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    1. Danke fürs Lesen, liebe Mia! Deine Eltern haben aber einen sehr süßen Ersatz für Deinen Pferdewunsch gefunden :)

      Und noch einmal vielen Dank, Du bist sehr sehr lieb <3

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  22. This is what I call a perfect outfit for winter! Love every piece! and you look super elegant :)

    Kisses,
    Anna from Anna's Mirror
    annasmirror.blogspot.com


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  23. Aww that faux-fur coat is adorable, I love it!
    Mafalda ❤
    www.mafaldadotzero.blogspot.fr

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    1. Many thanks, first I was not sure if I should buy this coat really :)
      Rena

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  24. hi! nice blog!
    follow to follow?
    let me know!!

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  25. Lovely post! This year I'll get a dog for my children. I also love faxe fur :)

    Jasmine xx For a Real Woman

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    1. Thanks for reading, I´m sure your children will be happy about the dog :) And so we have this in common that we love faux fur, I like this!

      Rena xx

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  26. beautiful faux fur! this is such a lovely story. If I'm ever blessed with children, I plan to allow them to have pets, because I think it is useful for children (and young) to take care of animals, it teaches them responsibility and sympathy. If I had an opportunity to afford them such a noble animal as a horse, I would take it. I agree with the advice you gave your friend.

    When I was young, I always dreamed of having a horse. In fact, horses were probably the first animals I tried to sketch. My grandparents had a mule when I was a child and I loved riding it but I have never liked ridding a donkey, they always looked so small and as I was a tall child I though it would look funny if I was ridding on one. So, when someone from the village send me to fetch their donkey I would just lead it....and donkeys seem to me to have such sad eyes. In my grandparent's village I always used to bring donkeys apples to make them feel better:) that is why they all liked me and years later they would still run to me if they saw me. Now, seeing a donkey run over to you is really a funny sight. I really believe donkeys, horses and mules are such smart animals!

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    1. Thanks, dear Ivana! Especially for reading and that you took time to comment so detailed. I think your plan to allow your children to have pets is really good as I share your opinion that this is useful. Wish you that you will be able to afford all the animals your children will like. And thanks for confirming my advice.

      And this sounds like as if you were already really good when you were a kid as you gave the donkeys which seemed to have such sad eyes donkey apples! This is so nice from you and if I would be one of this donkeys (although sometimes I have the feeling I´m really a donkey) I would also run to you if I saw you! I believe also that donkey, horses and mules are such smart animals :)

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  27. Bless her. I wish your client the very best as it must be very difficult for her.

    I wish I had a horse. My biggest dream is to buy my own house and make it a home. Love is the foundation. You may have all the money in the world but if there is no love, life is not stable.

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    1. Thanks for the good wishes to my client, dear Naaj!

      Wish you that you will have a horse and your own house as soon as you want. And I agree, love is the foundation – for everything! You radiate always love, thanks a lot for this <3

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  28. Ich finde es ganz großartig von deiner Klientin, dass sie ihrer Tochter mit dem Perd so eine riesen Freude bereiten wird. Es ist eine große Verantwortung, ein Tier zu versorgen. Tiere bereichern unser Leben.

    Ich mag übrigens ganz besonders deinen Pulli ♥
    LG Sabine

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    1. Ich finde meine Klientin auch in dieser Hinsicht richtig toll, und da ich selber so ein Tierfreund bin und täglich davon profitiere, wie sehr Tiere unser Leben bereichern, freue ich mich ganz besonders.

      Danke, dass Du ganz besonders meinen Pulli magst, der gefällt auch meinem Mann richtig gut ♥
      LG Rena

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  29. Super Kunstfell-Look - du überstrahlst wieder einmal alles und das ist gut so! Du hast immer wieder eine tolle Einstellung zum Leben! Richtig schön!

    Liebe Grüße aus München,

    Vanessa
    www.pureFASHION.tv

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    1. Und Du bist wieder einmal herausragend nett, liebe Vanessa, das ist einfach höchst erfreulich! Ich freue mich, dass Du findest, dass ich eine tolle Einstellung zum Leben habe, denn das ist etwas mit dem ich ständig beschäftigt bin :)

      Liebe Grüße vom Land nach München,

      Rena

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  30. very lovely outfit, I love your shirt!

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  31. That outfit is really great and that faux fur soat is peeeerfect. I hope you have a nice weekend. We havent snow and I see you still have. xa

    http://www.fashiondenis.com/

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    1. Many thanks, dear Denisa, my weekend was great so far, I hope, yours too! And we have only still snow on a few places like near this frozen sea. xa

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  32. What a moving story, sigh! Actually our daughter loves horses too, and while we can't afford one, plus she's too young for that anyway, we take her once a week to a horse facility where they teach her to take care of animals and to ride as well. I love your furry jacket!!
    Love,
    Coco
    Coco et La vie en rose
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    1. Thanks for reading, my dear friend! It´s great that you take your daughter once a week to a horse facility and so enable her to take care of animals and ride as well. You are such a good mother <3 Thanks for loving my furry jacket :)
      Love,
      Rena

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  33. Beautiful look and place too!! Have a great weekend! =D

    Check out my newest post!
    http://whattostyle.blogspot.com/

    xoxo,
    Jess

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  34. Awasome blog. I love your style :*
    Do you want to follow each other?
    Just let me know :)
    I always follow back <3

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  35. Thank you for your comment! I follow you on bloglovin (: x

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  36. Ich liebe es!

    New post up in: http://berrytrendy.com/2014/01/04/2014-fashion-trends/

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  37. Wow,sooo ein schönes Outfit, der Mantel steht dir wirklich ausgezeichnet. *__*
    Liebe Grüße Nessa

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    1. Vielen herzlichen Dank, liebe Nessa <3
      Liebe Grüße, Rena

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  38. Love the coat.

    Hi_D
    http://kintsugioflife.blogspot.com/

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  39. My dad used to have a horse in the country side, that was enough for me. I am so jealous of where you are standing. I used to go ice skating on lakes - my bestest of the best experiences.
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    1. It must have been great for you that your dad had a horse in the country side! And thanks that you recognized where I´m standing :) Wish you that you will go ice skating on a frozen lake as soon as you want, although I fear this is in London much more difficult than in your home country …

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  40. I would love to have my own horse one day, I've always wanted one since I was a little girl! Best, CD. ican'taffordmylifestyle

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    1. Wish you that your dream comes true <3

      Best Rena

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  41. Hey) already followed you on GFC and bloglovin, waiting for you )

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  42. That's so sweet of your client - I used to love riding horses when I was a little girl but we didn't live anywhere close to a farm so we couldn't really own a horse. It's nice to know that your client is really making her daughter's happiness a priority, even if it's not necessarily the most practical thing.
    That said, your outfit is amazingly beautiful! LOVE the faux fur coat! You look so warm and chic!

    xo Deborah
    Coffee, Prose, and Pretty Clothes

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    1. I think also this is really sweet of my client, and I can imagine that it was also wonderful for you that you have ridden horses when you were a little girl.
      Many thanks for LOVING my fur coat, fortunately it is really warm :)

      xo Rena

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  43. Hello dear Rena! I am so sorry I'm a bit late:). please do understand:). You have a real marvelous look on this chic outfit lady you are. I love everything you have wearing. even though is the fake fur but you wears as a million one my dearly friend! I couldn't agree more about the happy childhood and the kids are need a good education, I've been plans for my kids to at least finish the Bachelor degrees. I'd be happy and glad to help them out about their collages need!! no horse for me though, I'm in the city most of the time, but I'd love to go visit the horses farm for a moment fun ride:)...I hope you and your lovely husband had a wonderful planed time together:). We just got back from the vacation a night before and my in law just left this morning. Fun Holidays for us. I hope you have a great new year start already lovely Rena! thank you to you so much for your loving and kindness relationship across the world. oxoxo.

    Hugsssss and Kiesssssssss!

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    1. Hello dear Tanya! No, you are not too late, you were clever that you enjoyed your vacation without blogging! I really understand you <3 Thanks that you love my look, you make me really happy with your feedback! And I´m sure you give your kids a wonderful childhood as you are such a caring and loving mother. Wish you that you will visit the horses farm as soon as you want. Sounds like as if you had wonderful holidays, this is exactly what you deserve! And yes, my start in the New Year was great, I hope, yours, too! I thank you so much for the love and friendship you give constantly to me <3 oxoxo

      Hugsssss and Kiesssssssss!

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  44. LOVE UR COAT

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  45. Manchmal ist das Leben einfach nur gemein und fies. Aber ich finde es toll, wenn sich Menschen nicht unterkriegen lassen und trotzdem alles geben, um das Beste aus ihrer Situation machen. Ich finde es eine schöne Idee, dass die Mutter beschlossen hat ihr das Pferd zu kaufen.

    Vielen lieben Dank! Als perfekt würde ich die Fotos sicherlich nicht bezeichnen, aber es freut mich, dass du das so siehst!
    Und deine Gesundheitswünsche für's neue Jahr kann ich auch sehr gut gebrauchen, da war letztes Jahr echt zu sehr der Wurm drin. :)

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    1. Ja, ich finde auch, dass das Leben mitunter alles andere als gerecht ist und umso mehr beeindruckt mich der Mut und die Stehauf-Mentalität von Menschen wie meiner Klientin.

      Ich finde Deine Fotos perfekt, wirklich! Nochmal von Herzen vor allem Gesundheit für Dich im Neuen Jahr.

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  46. very nice and interesting blog ! Do u wanna follow each other ? if yes follow me and I ll follow u back as soon as possible :*

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  47. Beautiful history this of your client... Child must be child in their time to be it.....
    As allways you are...very elegant, and funny....BESOS

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    1. Thanks for reading and your thoughtful and nice comment <3

      BESOS

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  48. First of all I am totally loving this outfit, Rena! I have been trying to find a coat like that for ages! it looks super chic on you- very elegant & expensive!
    And I agree with the advice you gave to your client- the most important thing you can give to a child is a happy childhood! I hope the girl likes the horse and she can have genuine fun with it, as I cannot imagine how hard it is to loose a father! :/

    www.callmemaddie.com

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    1. Thanks a lot, dear Maddie! I was really happy when I discovered this coat as I felt immediately the urgent desire to own such a coat. And appropriate my profession as a purchaser I surfed as long through the Internet until I discovered this coat :)
      I thank you also that you agree to my advice and your good wishes for the girl, as I know really well how difficult it is if children loose a part of a parent.

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  49. Very sophisticated look!
    Love your fur coat!
    xxx
    S
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  50. You look absolutely wonderful! One of your best looks so far in my opinion! Keep up the good work gorgeous xx

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  51. I think a happy childhood is the foundation for happiness. I love your coat hun.
    Beautetude

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    1. So we have the same opinion. Thanks for loving my coat.

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  52. Really like your bag and heels x

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  53. hi! this look very chic! love the fur coat
    I posted a new look, I'd love to know your opinion
    would you like to pass from my blog?
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    kiss

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  54. Great outfit!! I'm sorry about the woman losing her husband. It's good that she still has a sense of humor though, and I hope things will get better over time for her.
    ~Sara

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    1. Many thanks for your nice feedback and for your good wishes for my client, dear Sara. You are such a good girl!
      x Rena

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  55. I have no time today to read your post,sorry!!! But I really really liked your outfit!! The coat is perfec!!!!
    Love, Bárbara

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    1. Thank you so much that nevertheless you took your precious time to write your really kind comment to me <3
      Love, Rena

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  56. Great outfit :)
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  57. Great post Rena. And a gorgeous outfit, love the complete look, the coat is amazing and the sweater so stylish. Well a happy childhood of course. Nope I don't want a horse. Do you? I would invest my money in some promising shares.
    hugs sweetie
    Lenya
    FashionDreams&Lifestyle

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    1. Thanks, dear Lenya! I try to do my best :) Like you I also don´t want a horse, and I know many other things in which I would like invest my money.
      Hugs my dear friend
      Rena

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  58. Love your sweater and sunglasses, you look gorgeous Rena!

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  59. love your sweater! happy new year!

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  60. Bobs! You look absolutely amazing in this faux fur. You look top Chic from head vto toe babes. I hope you client and daughter finds more joy,such a pity,so sad she lost her best mate(husband) and i hope her daughter will love the horse. Your story is so touching.
    Have a lovely evening Rena,Kisses...
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    1. Dear kim bim, you are the best, thank you so much especially for the good wishes for my client. I hope also that the horse helps a little to improve their hard fate.
      Have a wonderful week, today here in Bavaria we have a day off as it is Epiphany.
      Kisses.

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  61. Love the sweater and your post!
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  62. I really like your whole outfit! Fab!
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    1. In this case I like my whole outfit, too, and this is indeed not always the case :)

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  63. Dear Rena, you look super stylish in your fake fur jacket, so cool ! I am currently obsessed with fake furs and yours is lovely ! As for parents and education, I do agree with the advice given to that woman. Kisses

    Fashion and Cookies

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    1. Dear Vale ♥, thank you so much! Like you I´m currently also obsessed with fake furs and I have to admit that I bought at least 4 new fur cats in the last weeks :) And thanks a lot for your agreement regarding my advice. Kisses

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  64. I love the fur coat on u & esp that it's faux fur! How amazing to hear a mom buying a horse for her daughter :) Obviously I'm far from being a parent but I know for all parents, it's the toughest job but also very rewarding! Childrens' happiness are incredibly important but also have to keep in mind the benefits for the child's life.
    Happiest New Yr to u!!
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    1. Thanks for loving my coat, dear Hanna, I love my coat also especially that it´s faux fur :) You are really good that you appreciate the parent´s work, and regarding my own experience that it is not only difficult but also there are many mistakes possible. Thanks for adding the important fact that also have to keep in mind the benefits for the child´s life.
      Thank you for your good wishes, I wish you a wonderful and happy New Year!

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  65. You look amazing! I love this look and especially your fur coat.
    I don't have no idea about horses, but I would love to have one. Such a beauties they are and I love how horses smell. I hope I don't sound like a weirdo .

    xoxo Ra

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    1. Many thanks, dear Ra!
      Why not to love the horses smell as it is so a natural and full of life? Wish you that you will have a horse as soon as you want!

      xoxo Rena

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  66. This is a wonderful look! My dear Rena regarding at horses maybe you still remember that at my grandma I used to have horses and of course I would love to have one but remains a dream because I don't have a farm for it. Education, love, the peace are important for a happy childhood.
    kisses

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    1. Thanks a lot, dearest Mihaela! Sure I remember that you used to have horses and I wish you really that you will have the possibility to have a horse in some way. You mentioned indeed the main factors for a happy childhood, thanks for that, I´m sure your children – if you have one in future - will have a wonderful childhood <3
      Kisses

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  67. Erst einmal: tolles Outfit!!! :) Steht dir wirklich gut!
    Die Geschichte ist wirklich süß, ich glaube, dass sich das Mädchen sehr über das Pferd gefreut hat! Vor allem, da so etwas, etwas ganz besonderes ist.
    Ich bin nicht wirklich so ein Pferde Fan, war ich noch nie, aber sie sind trotzdem traumhaft schöne Tiere.
    Lg, Lea

    zucker-schlecken.blogspot.de
    Wenn du magst, kannst du ja mal bei mir vorbeischauen und evtl. auch folgen, wenn dir mein Blog gefällt.

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    1. Vielen Dank liebe Lea und auch dafür, dass Du Dich so gut in das Mädchen hineinversetzt hast.
      LG Rena
      Natürlich schaue ich gerne mal bei Dir vorbei :)

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  68. What an amazing outfit, I love everything about it, especially the coat, what a great color, you look adorable!
    Pop Culture&Fashion Magic

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  69. I would love to own a horse! I used to take horse back riding lessons and I loved it so much. That sounds like a really loving parent to buy their child a horse. I adore this outfit! I'm a huge fan of fur this season and your jacket is so perfect!!! You look so stylish and chic!

    xox,
    anna-lamode.blogspot.com

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    1. Wish you your own horse as soon as you want, dear Anna! Thanks a lot for your wonderful feedback, like you I´m also a huge fan of fur at the moment :)

      xox,
      Rena

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  70. wieder einmal wunderschön und sehr elegant! danke für deinen lieben kommentar. also, wenn du bei der präsentation mitmachst, hast du super chancen, denn dein stil ist einfach nur toll! aber das sage ich dir ja schon so oft :) ich wünsche dir auch alles, alles gute im neuen jahr! wir haben schön gefeiert, ich hoffe ihr auch :)

    ganz liebe grüße
    dahi

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    1. Allerliebsten Dank, liebe dahi <3 Mein Kommentar kommt wie stets von Herzen. Danke, dass Du mich so bestärkst, Du bist wunderbar! Wie schön, dass Ihr toll gefeiert habt, unser Silvester war auch klasse :)

      Ganz liebe Grüße
      Rena

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